Yes, You Can Absolutely Call Yourself A Writer

A few years ago, in the middle of the pandemic, I found myself slowly returning to something I had long pushed aside: writing. I was working on a memoir, scribbling poems again after years of silence, and yet (even in the act of writing) I hesitated to call myself a writer.

It felt… false. Or maybe I felt unworthy.
I hadn’t published anything. Not yet.
And could I really call what I was doing art?

Self-doubt had taken the wheel.

Then something shifted. I joined a community of writers, people who encouraged not just the act of writing, but the brave, terrifying act of sharing. It was vulnerable. It was messy. But it was also transformative.

That community helped me reclaim the title I’d been afraid to use.

It's why I kept going.
It’s why I published a book of poems.
And it’s why I’m here, writing this…for you.

Because if you’ve ever been afraid to call yourself a writer…
If you’re waiting for a sign, a certificate, a book deal, or someone else’s approval…This is it.

You are a writer.
If you write, whether or not you share it, publish it, or polish it, you are a writer.

Own it. Wear it like a crown.
Be proud. And above all… keep writing.
Hone your skills. Explore your voice. Let the words lead you.

And if you're looking for encouragement, a gentle place to grow into your writer-self, I invite you to join us in the Emerging Writers Circle. It’s a space for people just like you…new, nervous, and full of stories waiting to be told.

Pick up your pen. You never know where it might take you.
And yes, you can absolutely call yourself a writer.

With warmth,

Sharla

Sharla Fanous

‍‍‍Sharla Fanous was born in 1979 in Methuen, Massachusetts and she spent most of her young life bouncing around the northeastern towns north of Boston. Like a true New Englander, she loves Fall, football, and Frost poems. She earned a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Clearwater Christian College and a Master’s in Business Leadership and Management from Liberty University.

She moved to Ottawa, ON Canada in 2007, where she resides with her three children and two cats, T’Challa and Ellie. She can be found binge watching HGTV, experimenting with a new recipe, or chasing around her three rambunctious (but adorable) kids. Jesus and coffee get her through these busy days (and 6 months of winter!). On rare occasions, she escapes her madhouse to seek the quiet of a local bookstore or engage in deep conversation with a friend.


https://www.sharlafanous.com
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